|Neither lost or forgotten
||[Dec. 18th, 2013|12:58 pm]
Just damn busy!|
Sam is now divorced!
I am a single mother of twin 5yr old redheads.
I share my lovely home with a loving man and my business has been relocated to a nearby spot that is 1000X better than my previous location.
I am happy as a clam. Mostly I haven't written here because motherhood, self employment and everything else going on has rolled right over me and who has time to journal with all that happening? Ok lots of folks but not so much me.
Working 7 days/wk takes its toll and being a single mother is a hard bargain but a wonderful one. Raising the boys in a separate environment from my ex is a good thing. We were never going to rediscover any happiness because he's just not the person I always wanted. It was fun and ok before the kids but he's not the marrying type or a caretaker unless forced and that is not what I want to spend the rest of my life around. My folks came to my rescue and helped me relocate both my home and business in a very short ammt of time and both new locations are far superior to the way I was living before. Big fenced back yard for the boys in a real house with parks nearby. Tiny little tattoo shop just the perfect size for lil ol me and another artist if ever I can find a reliable one.
I am still, despite 2 divorces, the marrying type. I want to settle down and have a partner with whom I can solve any problem great or small and who has a good sense of humor about it while getting on to business. I don't want to be afraid to ask for help or..or.. shit I am not going to drag the past into this. I want real love and as much caring as I can also give back. And that's a lot.
My love and housemate is all I could ask for and more. We have so much fun doing nothing. we have the same sense of humor and snuggle well.
I could go on and on about him but I have to get to work. go figure.